The Spin Cycle topic this week is Friends. The Ethel to your Lucy, you partner in crime and shopping, the one you turn to when it all comes crashing down, or the person you tell your triumphs too.
This one is tough for me. I don't make friends easily. It doesn't help that people turn over here every 4-5 years. Living in a college town is complicated. No one stays around here long.
Some of you out there have lots of friends, but I only ever really had one or two at a time. Right now I don't really have a wildly close friend. I have friends, but not that one who you can call at any time and know she'll be there.
I have hope that I will find one one of these days. Meanwhile I have some great friends that I connect to on line. The best one is an old friend who has moved away. Stacy is one of those people that things just clicked between us when we first started hanging out. We now keep in touch by Facebook, email, blog and phone calls. Since she's in Alaska, getting together is complicated. But we make the most of the time we get. Thank goodness for Facebook.
I hate to be cliche, but Nick is someone who I consider my best friend. I tell him almost anything. He not so good with the girly stuff, but otherwise he does pretty good.. He listens and sympathizes with me when I get all bothered by the fact that I don't have a lot of girl friends. I think that is one reason why he thinks my blogging is so cool. He sees how much connection it gives me.
Blogging was a life saver after I had Bruiser. It gave me a connection and an outlet and showed me that while distance separates me from a lot of people, there are a lot of people out there who are just like me. I've made some amazing friends. It's that alone that keeps me coming back to post all week. Waiting to see what my friends are talking about and waiting to see what they think of what I have to say.
One of these days I'll get to meet some of the ladies I "know" from blogging: Gretchen, Impulsive Addict, Mimi, Mamarazzi, Shawn, Jen (From Sprite's Keeper), Jill, Nain, Stacy... oh so many great ladies.
So now go see
Gretchen, she of the Spin Cycle directing. She will have other friends spins. Go check them out.